Saying No is OK! *Serious Topic*

Hello my lovelies,
I hope this topic is OK to cover I just really felt like I could help one of you (or maybe two). A little disclaimer I'm not a specialist I'm talking from my experience. I just want to let you guys now that you are important so if someone does something YOU DO NOT LIKE you can SAY NO.
I would just like to start by letting you know what I mean by someone doing something you do not like:
1. If they hold your hand
2. If they hug you for a length of time
3. If they try to be alone with you and you don't want to be alone with them.
4. If they try it on with you!
5. Anything that makes you for 1 second not want to be in that situation/ feel uncomfortable.
Honestly this could be anything but I really honestly believe that if you do not like that situation you can get out of it it is your right. Here are some things that are OK to do if you want out of that situation:
1. Be rude!
2. Tell them to get off
3. Tell them no
4. Do not be alone with them (as much as possible)
5. PUT YOURSELF FIRST!
I also think that if you even like this person in a friend way or if you're crushing on them or if they're your boy/girlfriend, they still have no right to be treating you like this. If they're a good friend for you to have they won't want to make you feel uncomfortable and will most likely apologise, if not stuff them they are not worth you.
If you think you have done something to deserve to be treated this way:
1. YOU DON'T
2. YOU'RE WORTHY OF MORE
3. YOU'RE IMPORTANT
4. I think you're amazing and if someone ever makes you feel like you're not worth something then that someone is not a good person to have in your life.
5. Please make sure you have people you can talk to if you feel uncomfortable in any situation.

I hope this has helped in some way. If you ever need to vent anything my ask box is open (on tumblr or email me I will try my best to reply). However if you need any other more educated advice ring childline on 0800 1111 they will help you by just listening and trying to give you practical advice.
I hope this helps you.
You have so much worth.
You are important!
Much love <3

First Dates

Hello my lovelies,

recently a couple of my friends have been having a couple of dates with their big time crushes and I think it is really sweet so much so I figured you guys might need a couple of tips or a little help with your outfit for such an occasion. Just a little disclaimer before we get going any items featured in this are pieces that I love and would wear for a date I am not doing product placement or anything :) 

Anyway...

Tip No1: Make sure you eat something before hand because you don't know when you could be eating again if it's a cinema date or if you're just hanging out. BUT if you're going out for a meal obviously don't eat this follows on to 

Tip No2: If you go for something to eat order what you like don't order a salad that you hate because you think it will impress him in my experience guys don't care what you eat but like girls who do eat what they want.

Tip No3: Don't wear lots of make-up if it's a first date just keep your make-up natural. Foundation, a little bit of mascara and some lippy goes a long way. Besides I highly doubt any of you need that much either.

Tip No4: Outfits. This is quite important but not for the reasons you think. You don't have to impress a guy on your first date by your outfit but you don't want him to think you haven't made any effort. I have come up with a couple of ideas by using polyvore to help you with your outifits 

Outfit Number 1:

Jacket-Topshop
Bow- Claires
Scarf- Zara
Bag- Cambridge Satchel Company
Boots- Topshop
Dress- Brandy Melville
Having your hair in a half up half down style secured with the bow would look really cute with this outfit and some slouchy socks with the boots would look super to.

Outfit Number 2:

Cardigan- Vila Brianna
Top- Topshop
Skirt- Brandy Melville
Socks- Topshop
Bag- Zara
Shoes- Converse

Last but not least

Outift Number 3:

Hoodie- Topshop
Top- Topshop
Jeans- Topshop
Boots- Topshop
Socks- Topshop
Lipstick- Topshop
Bag- Prada
I know this is a lot of Topshop but it wasn't intentional at all!

Finally Tip No5: Be yourself. Cheesy as it sounds it's actually very sensible, I mean would you want a guy to go on a second date with you when you weren't acting how you normally do? There's no point to it. Be yourself because you're the best version of you that you could be.

I hope this helps you a little bit :) but remember you can't start dating until your 16! (boys are smelly!)

Hope you're all having a good week and have enjoyed summer!

Good luck to everyone who's starting school/college/uni. I am bricking it!

Much love <3